The Difficult equation

lets just face it there is nothing called eternal love......especially in todays age where time is no longer your best friend where the hell are  going to spend eternity with a person when you have a mortgage to pay and a job scene which is more shaky than the rope bridge which gives away in those scary movies.

Love today is chemistry a moment that makes this fast paced crazy evolving world bearable....so the question is if love is a moment ho do relationships work then....the answer is they dont you have to make them work. More than often love is blind and god somehow has forgotten to update his chemistry software for the twentieth century so more than often what your heart says is right is probably not......

Practical check lists even thou may seems completely unromantic but surely help you in the long run....the trick is to find that perfect mix of chemistry and mathematics well seems tough but as the cliche says nothing is impossible in the world....

More on this equation soon.......

Because the little things built a life time.....loveisalthereis.....

When it gets old......

Its all fun and games when you have just discovered the glow of chemistry sparks fly and the simple ice cream has the magic of wonderland. One bite each as you look into each others eyes melting into infinity......A year into this dynamic you and me and suddenly the magic has some what transformed from a raging fire into glistening embers.....you know each other inside out and there is sweet comfort in this realization.....But then unfortunately you are a humanbeing and we are the ultimate searchers for whats next......

Now what ? do you just accept the fact that this is it you no longer will feel your heart thumping or you decide that monogamy is not just your cup of tea..

Well pack your suitcase and catch the next flight, bus , train out of there and dont forget to take your loved one with you.

There is something about charting unknown territories and experiencing the new that brings the that somehow reminds your heart about its forgotten chemistry....Every person reacts differently to a new situation and that is what you need.....to find the new in the old......

So you want love....

lets just accept the fact with the crazy travel and even a crazier boss dealing with something as chaotic as a relationship can be just to much...It is much easier to keep it light. I mean after all you need to earn your bread and love does not put food on the table....
But when is enough enough....I mean it never is....Is there a time when you earn your place in the corporate universe and perhaps you have the bandwith to finally give your heart a chance.
Relationships are not easy.....was your climb to the corporate ladder easy ?
You have had to sacrifice a lot....your time, your mentally peace and your ego......you still wonder sometimes how did you survive....but when it comes to love or relationships you expect it to be one smooth ride of rainbows and flowers....you want your loved one always to smell of Davidoff or victoria's secret....the moment they smell of fart it is over.....

LOVE IN KALYUG

There is love in the air, valentines day is around the corner and the color red seems to be staring down at you with a vengeance. Couples are under pressure to convince each other about the depth of their love in one day and singles are mentally exercising their ability to not give a fuck.
Then again if love was that easy that the whole world would not be at war with each other.
The most expensive commodity in our hierarchy of needs is love. Its a very tricky thing, very high maintenance and a very trying boss.
Like the mermaid whose song enchants you to eat you whole...love is an enchantress which lives to devour you whole. The challenge is to play the game fair and square and it begins with you......

 Every Valentines day my better half sends me my favorite red without fail, for me they are a promise of life may not be perfect but roses always are......sometimes it takes a marketing phenomena to wake you up from your slumber of our daily struggle called life to do something for somebody that even thou is cliche represents all that good that can be....